After waiting for so long for the right person to go on a date with, finally you get one, it can be nerve racking, chances are high someone might ruin it quickly,to relieve the pressure,I will share with you 10 things you will regret doing on a date. So don’t do them.
A date is the romantic stage where a lady and a guy put their hope high to experience full love, because of tension surrounding it, tips are needed to get better result.
You may have seen some tips in the internet, what you should do and what you shouldn’t do on a date, well, there are no golden rules rather than to be yourself and go with the flows
The few points am about to share with you, are not rules either , its just what ‘experienced daters’ don’t do on a date and it really work for them.
As a guy, you don’t want that girl to cut off the date quickly because she find you boring right?, or as girl you don’t want the charming looking guy to give an excuse, he want to use the restroom while he run away from you ?
if yes then these are the tips that have work for many on a date.
sharing your life struggles.
Dont be too personal while sharing your life story, you don’t really want to put yourself as someone the world hate.
Never share how life treated you baldly or the feeling to slap the waitress for spilling the wine on the table.
Share the bright side of you , be fun, nobody want his/her future partner to be someone who hate the world.
2.Constantly correcting your partner’s grammar or beliefs
You are not on a date to mentor him /her.
It isn’t in your position to correct his belief, if you dont share the same belief , keep it to yourself, things are better left unsaid, you can still sum up the score later.
Constantly correcting you partner is not going to give you a good first impression, be humble, open minded and comforting.
3.Glancing through your phone
Dont touch your phone, I repeat! don’t even take a glance at your phone .
At the start of the date, its advisable to keep your phone upside down.
Apart from pressing your phone on a date is insulting, it shows the date no longer interests you.
4. Use of vocal words.
The way you communicate on a date defines you
vulgar words like fuck, screw e.t.c are wrong to use on a date,
Communicating in formal English is advisable.
After all there is a reason you guys choose to go for a date not a club.
5. Talking freguently about your exes.
Nothing can make your date as short as bringing your exes to every conversation.
it gives the bigger picture that you haven’t move on.
Dont rant about them , although it’s allowed to talk about your exes, if the discussion requires during so but ensure it’s not that frequent.
6. Cutting them off when speaking.
This is very bad idea, not even allowed outside date.
keep the atmosphere lively, if you have anything to say, let him/her finish first.
Show respect by also listening to what they have to say, by doing so, your partner feel so special and loved.
7. Talking more about yourself.
If you don’t want to date yourself , you should avoid doing this,
say less things about yourself and more listening ear to what he/she is saying, let her feel she is part of the date to.
Everyone want his/her voice to be heard right?
8.paying little attention on how you eat.
Take a bite of what you can chew at a time.
Don’t make him feel you are more interested in the food.
9. Ordering different food.
Although this doesn’t count but definitely give you a bonus mark.
If he is the one who orders first, order the same thing too, its all about creating a lovely atmosphere.
I cant figure why guys like this but they do.
Ensure to know what food it is , you don't want to have running stomach when the date is over.
10. Talking about children.
keep calm, one step at a time.
A date is not a place to discuss your love for children.
keep it cool and simple.